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| As we seem to be getting
less and less formal with our weddings so thus do the invitations, the important
role of an invitation is to let your guests know "how formal" your wedding
will be. This will help them decide on their attire and who is actually invited
eg: are their children welcome? Formal invitations are written in the third
person and would general look similar to the example to the left. |

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Mr and Mrs Clarke Request the pleasure of your company
at the marriage of their daughter Susan to Mr Brian Martin at
St. David's Anglican Church Milton St, Bangalow on Saturday, 16th
December 2005 at 3.30pm and afterwards at a reception to be held at
The Ballina RSL 10 Johnson St Bangalow NSW 2222 RSVP
1st September, 2005 |
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| Another way is to leave a space in which
to write the names of those invited, this will make it very clear who is invited. Avoid
"and family" as this WILL cause confusion. Children over 16 usually
recieve their own invitation, thus you can invite the older of your relatives/friends
children and exclude the young if that is your wish |
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Mr and Mrs Clarke Request the pleasure of the company
of _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ at the marriage of their daughter
Susan to etc etc |
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| There are many different deviations
from this depending on the personal family makeup, here are some common examples
of different wording This example is used for when divorced parents are
the hosts. | |
Mr Stephen Clarke and Mrs Joan Clarke Request the pleasure
of the company of at the marriage of their daughter Susan to
etc etc |
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| For when the bride's mother has remarried, but
both parents are still hosting the wedding. |
|
Mr Stephen Clarke and Mr Mathew Stuart Request the pleasure
of the company of at the marriage of their daughter Susan Collins
to etc etc |
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| If the brides mother and step father are hosting
the wedding | 
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Mr and Mrs Scott Ede Request the pleasure of the company
of at the marriage of her daughter Susan Collins to etc etc |
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| As is the same for when the brides father and
step mother host the wedding. |

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Mr and Mrs John Smith Request the pleasure of the company
of at the marriage of his daughter Susan to etc etc |
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| When the grooms parents are hosting the wedding. |

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Mr and Mrs Harry Kent Request the pleasure of the company
of at the marriage of Mary Collins to their son Victor Kline |
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| When the grooms parents are hosting the wedding. |

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Mr and Mrs Harry Kent Request the pleasure of the company
of at the marriage of Susan Collins to their son Victor
Kline |
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| Many Couples are now hosting their own weddings
with varying levels of formality, here are some examples |

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Susan and Mark would like to invite _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _
_ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ to their wedding at Little Wategoes Beach
etc etc |
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| Another. |

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Susan Collins and Mark Dean Request the pleasure of the
company of _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ to their wedding
at Little Wategoes Beach etc etc |
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| Sometimes the wedding may be hosted by a friend,
aunty, brother or other extension of family. Here it is best tto use the brides
relationship with the host as the reference |

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Mr and Mrs John Smith Request the pleasure of the company
of _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ _ at the marriage of his niece
Susan etc etc |
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| If you do not intend to have have guests attend
the ceremony, say it is at a registry office or a very personal affair, then you
may wish to simply nvite the guest to the reception. |

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Mr and Mrs Clarke Request the pleasure of the company of
at the reception following the marriage of their daughter Susan
etc etc |