Adultshops:

Adult shops are not scary places, not only that but you'll probably find a woman behind the counter to talk to.

They are generally very informed about the products they sell and very open to discuss anything thats on your mind.

2 reasons for visiting an adult shop may be, a) to get some funny things for your hens or bucks night or b) get something a little different for your honeymoon, either of these reasons would see you in your local adult shop asking a million questions so take the opportunity to ASK those million questions.

Perhaps write some down before you get there.

Some adult shops have a ladies only day so give them a call to ask if thats the case.

Take a friend, i'm sure you won't have any trouble finding someone to help you.